Many wedding couples think that they need to give their guests something to take home to remember their wedding day. I encourage my couples not to do this, but rather to give their guests the greatest gift that they can--time of themselves.
Your guests have gone to considerable time, effort and expense to spend this day with you, ignoring them is not the way to create lasting memories. A trinket of your choosing is not going to endear them to you either. The last thing that your guests need is another tin of M&M's or a photo key chain. They already have a drawer full at home and could probably pass out their own favors at the next event they attend.
Rather than spend your money on something that is wasted, why not put that money towards good food and good entertainment. If you take each other by the hand and individually thank your guests for attending your day, that is all the gift that they need. Your thankfulness for their presence, your graciousness and kind words will leave the lasting impression that you want to leave with your guests. They will think that your event was truly the best and only carry fond memories of your special day.
Making your guests feel treasured and special is truly the greatest gift that you could give to them!
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