Lots of weddings and lessons...

It feels like a lifetime ago since I last posted. Sorry. Our weekend was nothing short of crazy and it is taking me a few days to recuperate. I have to start by saying kudos to my crew! They were amazing and then some!! 7 weddings in 6 days has to be some sort of miracle or at least definitely crazy! Here are some things we learned in the last week and a half:

1. Music helps make a reception into a party. A band is great, but a great DJ makes the party. Not everyone can appreciate your choice in music. So when you choose a band based on what you like, it might not be to your guests' liking. The answer? Have the band play for about a hour, no more than two, then turn the DJ loose with party music. He or she can gage the mood of the room, the ages of your guests and play a variety of music from all genres and artists. Music is very important. If you want people to stay and party - give them a reason.


2. If you are going to have a dry reception (no alcohol), then have some fun beverages to serve. How about a non-alcoholic signature drink? Pop the cork on some sparkling grape juice. Even better, serve a warm apple cider to your guests when they first arrive. Receptions are for celebrating, so you definitely want something for your guests to celebrate with.


3. Create an area where people can get away from the dance floor to visit and watch the fun. Situating your dance floor in the midst of your reception is always a good idea, but creating a place where people can get "away" for a little bit to have a drink, visit with long lost cousins, or just sit back a way from the music, is a great idea. Add some tall cocktail tables, a few chairs and you have the makings of a perfect reception party room.

4. Above all be a gracious host and hostess. Smile, hug, love and dote on your guests. Make them feel special and treasured. Give them memories of your gracious and loving self - this is a perfect wedding.